I know that losing weight for other people is the wrongest possible motivation and so I'd just like to clarify that I obviously have many of my OWN reasons for this weight loss - as you can see from the 8 out of 10 reasons I'll be listing that have nothing to do with other people! :o) Also, you all know cuz I've said it before that Trevor is totally supportive of me and never has made me feel like I had to lose weight in order to be beautiful to him or anything silly like that. He totally loves me no matter what. (And I know that cuz I weighed much much more than I do now when he met me and when we were dating and when we got married!!!) So, that is awesome for me.
But still, I want to be the kind of wife that he is proud to show off (and of course, he'll always say that he's always been proud to show me off... ) but you know - its in my head to want to make him proud. ((if you haven't read yesterday's post about his co-worker not recognizing me, you should - its a good example of me being happy to make Trevor proud)). And secondly, I want to lose weight to be more ... well... (all family members please PLUG YOUR EARS!) ... to be more sexy. shhh. Don't tell anyone I said that. :o) But its true that losing weight and having more confidence are a definite bonus and I'm just saying...
And thirdly in this area - I've ALWAYS weighed more than Trevor excepting for a few months right before I got pregnant with Elan - and I've always wished to be "his little woman" if you know what I mean. And so, that is something else I'm motivated to work towards. I weigh 155.8 right now and as I've mentioned, he's usually 150 - but max 155 - so I'm ALMOST there again. And the day I weigh less than him, I'm gonna have a little party - cuz that's always been something I've wanted.
So, those are my thoughts about my motivation to lose weight in relation to my husband.
AND REMEMBER...
:o)
hee hee, I don't think I even have to type it - cuz you all know what I'm going to say!!
LETS NOT GIVE UP WHAT WE WANT MOST FOR WHAT WE WANT AT THE MOMENT!
Happy Wednesday Friends.
2 comments:
Is this going to be a party that others could come to or one that is for Trevor only!?!?! ;)
So proud of you Colleen!
Awww... aren't you cute!
:)
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